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Most of them have a feel rather believe that with the marriage ring there is attached an invisible string. They believe it restricts them their pre marriage freedom. But it is not so. A happy life depends on how we make enough space for both of our interests, thoughts, ideologies etc. The most interesting thing is that you will have moments when you would feel out of the world in marriage. And suddenly after a fight you would feel you wee happy when you were single. And one day you feel you could never have gone through all the ups and downs in your life with out the one to go back to home and share it. You would be very happy to go back home after a tiring day and laugh or cry about the entire day s events. Perfect person or perfect life does not mean a person or life with out faults. It is just you handle it perfectly. What ever be the choice you have to learn to accept it and love it. Life would be at its best if we start enjoying for what it is rather than grudging over what it should be. So live the most of life with less grudges and grumblings at our homes.

In olden days, there were no computers, no emails, no mobiles, no phones even. People used to communicate with each other very easily. How was that possible? It is because there were joint families where brothers, sisters stay together. Their children are used to conveying the messages to their relatives. On festival days, marriage ceremony, the kith and kin were available to do the necessary work. Each one will be given work so that the particular task will be completed in a planned manner. No hurry. Now-a-days the families are shortened to maximum four. All the relatives live in each corner of the city or some of them even stay out of the state. They communicate only through mobiles and emails. No meetings or get together parties. They arrive to the function only at the correct time, stay for few minutes and fly away. Why this? All are chasing for money. Everybody wants to compete with each other in some manner or the other. Their aims are big. To achieve their aim, they have to work harder forgetting all the things that were prevailed in olden days. Of course we have to go along the waves. This kind of work will lead to tension, which will end up in health haphazard. Let us remember that Life is given to us only once. Let us not shorten it by fast forwarding it.